Sex during the period is one on those issues that some couples deal with. Especially during the honeymoon period. Where one mate doesn’t mind the blood while the other is horrified at the thought. Period sex can not cause infections, but one can still get infected with STDs and HIV if their partner is infected. Below is a question asked by a lady on sex during the period.
Dear Getrude, I get horny when I have my period. Is it cool to have sex, or will I totally turn him off and scare my guy out? Jean
Hey Jean, you are not alone lots of women get aroused during Mensuration. This is due to increase in hormone levels. Don’t we all wish the moods would come two weeks before? And it would last only half hour. At two in the morning every 15th of the month and by morning everything is back to normal? The period can sometimes be disruptive. Especially when happen when he has just arrives after being away for months. They could also sour a perfect anniversary, a wedding night or even the honeymoon.
I am sure many guys have nightmares imagining in their penis and coming out dripping with blood. I am sure they think their penis would hurt. We all known when it comes to their crown jewels, men are cowards. So the idea of sex during the period freaks out most of the bravest men. At the mention they scamper to the safety of the hills. Yet, there are those among us both men and women who are daring enough to do it despite all.
One can have sex during the menstrual flow. But, whether it’s cool or not is dependent on personal option. Thus it must be by mutual agreement. You must discuss this with him first, doing it without warning him is what will scare or turn him off. A cool way to introduce the subject would be to put it hypothetically. For example you could say; “there is a girl I known, who does it on her period”. You can tell where he stands depending on how he takes it.
Should he be one of those all weather, all terrain kinda guy. Then there are a few basic rule that you should observe. Don’t have sex on the heavy flow days. Let him put on a condom. Wash-up the vagina thoroughly and place a dark towel on the bed underneath. Limit the positions to “missionary position”. Other positions like woman-on-top will help increase the flow downwards. You should keep a towel or wipes near by for a quick clean after.