Why many married women in their 30s are tempted to cheat and how to end it

Married women tempted to cheat may face temptations at various stages of life, influenced by circumstances, state of mind, and their support system, among other factors. A woman in her 50s could have very different reasons to cheat as opposed to one in her 30s.

As a married woman reaches her 30s, she has likely experienced significant changes and faced various challenges that have tested her to the limit. This is a very challenging time for many women.

By this time, many married women may have children, their careers are advancing, and they have likely reached a level of sexual maturity. On top of being a homemaker and wife, she is now a mother. Juggling between these roles is hard especially if her  husband does not help. Yet he demands she keep looking good, slim and sex him up often.

In this video I will discuss why these women have affairs, who they have it with and how to end the affairs. Please stick until the end of this video to learn tips. 

Some reasons why married women may be tempted to cheat

There isn’t one single reason for women in their 30s to tempted to cheat, as every individual and relationship is unique.

Here are 5 common factors that may contribute to married women to be tempted to cheat

1. Husband is not providing: If the husband is not able to provide for the family, some women would find it easier to get someone else to foot the bill.
2. Emotional dissatisfaction: If a woman feels emotionally disconnected or unfulfilled in her marriage, she may seek emotional intimacy and validation outside the relationship. Like when a  husband has refused to step up and take up his role seriously. He is now competing with the baby and keeps making demands and complaining about everything.
3. Lack of communication: Poor communication or unresolved conflicts within the marriage can lead to feelings of frustration and resentment, driving a woman to seek companionship and understanding elsewhere. Many men find it difficult to communicate. Leaving the woman with no clear vision and plans for the future. Making her seek advice on career and life elsewhere. 
4. Sexual dissatisfaction. A unfulfilled wife woman who’s may feel tempted to seek fulfillment elsewhere. Some men at this age have premature ejaculation thus are not able to satisfy their wives. Sexually mature wives will demand a lot more. They are no longer just doing it for him. They also have their own preferences and demand satisfaction. That plus after childbirth, it now takes a lot more to bring her to cloud 9.
5. Revenge: Infidelity may be a response to perceived betrayal or dissatisfaction within the marriage, as a way to seek revenge or regain a sense of power. Like the saying goes “hell hath no fury like a woman scorned”. A hurt woman is capable of doing irrational things at the heat of the moment due to emotions and regretting the decision later. Who is this woman likely to have an affair with?

Who are these women married women tempted to cheat with?

Determining who a married woman is likely to have an affair with depends on various factors such as her personal circumstances, social environment, and individual preferences. Here are some possibilities:

1. The Co-worker: Affairs often start in the workplace due to frequent interaction and shared experiences. Most people spend more time at work or business with coworkers and associates than at home with a spouse. This could lead to a woman developing feelings for a co-worker who provides emotional support and understanding.
2. Friends: Close friendships can sometimes evolve into romantic relationships, especially if there is mutual attraction and emotional connection. Many women are platonic friendships with other males. But very  few men take women as platonic friends.
3. The Ex-partner: When in trouble or  disturbed, there is always a danger of reconnecting with an ex for advice. Which could reignite old feelings and lead to an affair. Unresolved issues or lingering emotions with the ex-partner. easily leading to an affair. As a woman you will do very well by keeping off the ex by all means. 
4. Social Media: Affairs can also begin with someone a woman meets through social activities, hobbies, or mutual friends. In the digital age, affairs can start through social media, dating apps, or online forums where individuals can connect and develop relationships discreetly. Harmless fun could lead to an unintended affair, not to mention online bullying and exploitation. 
5. Stranger: Some affairs begin as spontaneous encounters with strangers, such as during travel or in social settings where individuals are more likely to engage in risky behavior. Drinking at end-of-year parties, out of town seminars and the thrill of hotel room, freedom can lead to regrets of a lifetime.

Guard your marriage

Married women must all keep our guard at all times to avoid being tempted to cheat. Because, inevitably, men give women attention regardless of marital status. They pursued women everywhere, including in church. And no woman is 100% immune to the thrill of male attention.

What makes ending the affair hard?

When a woman has an affair. After a while she comes back to her senses and resolves to end the affair. The hard part is breaking up the affair. I know of a number of women who sought my services on how to end an affair. Some after years of trying in vain. Every time these women meet up with their lovers to end it. They decide to have one last session. As we all know make-up and break-up sex are some of the hottest, steamiest. Resulting in a never-ending breakup sex session. Some time, women find themselves back into the affair shortly after, because the issues in the marriage have not resolved.

How can a woman stop the cheatings?

Ending an affair can pose challenges. Yet it remains the right choice for of all parties involved and the integrity of a marriage.

Here are some steps a woman can take to end an affair:

1. Take it to God. The first step is to engage in spirituality to promote peace of mind, emotional, and mental well-being. Asking God to forgive you and to grant you grace, strength to save your marriage. A prayer partner will help. Please don’t pay for prayers.
2. Acknowledge the affair and take responsibility for it.  Recognize the impact on the marriage, oneself, and other individuals involved. Before you make excuses you must recognize that you are responsible for this mess. That you could have done better.  
3. Assess motivations. Reflect on the reasons for engaging in the affair. And identify any underlying issues or unmet needs within oneself or the primary relationship. Be honest with yourself. Many times the motivations are selfish and even when they are not the affair is not a solution. 
4. Cut off contact. You must inform your accomplice that you are terminating the affair. You must do this in person and in a public place. End all communication and contact with the person involved in the affair. This may involve blocking their phone number, avoiding places where they frequent, and disconnecting from them on social media.
5. Seek support: Reach out to trusted friends, family members, or a therapist for emotional support and guidance. It can be helpful to have someone to confide in and lean on during this difficult time.
6. Focus on the marriage. Invest time and effort into rebuilding and strengthening the marriage. This may involve open communication, couples therapy, and recommitting to each other’s needs and well-being.
7. Address underlying issues. Take steps to address any underlying issues or problems within the marriage that may have contributed to the affair. This may involve personal growth, self-reflection, and working together with your husband to improve the Marriage.

Be strong

Ending an affair requires courage, honesty, and commitment to oneself and spouse. It may be a challenging process. But taking proactive steps to end the affair and prioritize personal and relational health is essential for moving forward positively.

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