Sex position for big people
Hello Aunty, My wife and I are big people – really big, okay over weight. Sex positions are a big challenge for us. Are there sex position for big people you can recommend? Ben.
Hey Ben, I hope you and your wife didn’t happen to come across a Kama Sutra book. Now you both think you are missing out on those exotic positions. Believe me, even skinny people find certain positions hard if not impossible to perform. I usually advice couples to ensure they have a good insurance cover before attempting advance positions. Don’t fall victim of the misconception that big people can’t have great sex; Studies have proven otherwise. Also, fat doesn’t accumulate on the penis, neither does it block the vagina.
Challenge can be overcome
Plus size people may find some positions challenging. With minor adjustments, they too can enjoy most positions as much as small people.
There are a few things you may want to consider. For example you must be careful less you suffocate or crush your partner in certain sex position for big people. Approach sex with caution while taking advantage of your weight. When well distributed, pressure on the genitals and pelvic area could give her immense pleasure. Another thing worth noting is for big a person is exhaustion. Sex is physically tasking, you shouldn’t penetrate as soon as you get an erection rather concentrate on foreplay and mount when you both are ready to avoid early burnout.
Sex positions for big people
Almost all positions are attainable so long as you are innovative and creative. Pillows are a valuable item as far as comfort during sex is concerned. For example missionary position could be easier if you place a pillow or two below her bottom, this will elevate her and create a more accessible angle.
If she has a big tummy, encourage her to lift it away from her pubic area with both hands, until you position yourself between her thighs. The woman on top position; you could lie on your stomach and pulls up your tummy if necessary, you either raise or rest your legs, then she squats over and mounts slowly.
The rear position, the wife kneels with her legs slightly apart, and lowers her chest so that her behind is elevated. You kneel behind her, and hold your stomach up with your hands then you penetrate. You can also rest your abdomen on her rear end to make it easier. Another position you could also try is a modified version of position 69 for oral sex. Instead of suffocating each other you could do it lying side by side with top leg bend at the knee. Innovation and a creative mind is all you need to enjoy sex positions for big people.
