Importance of sexy outfits to bed

Many men wish their wives would put on sexy outfits to bed. The dress to bed can either enhance the mood or kill it all together.

Below is a question on the issue of sexy outfits to bed, asked by a distort husband:

“Hi Getrude, How can I get my wife to dress up in sexy clothes to bed?”  John

What is offensive?

Hi John, I am sure thousands of men whose wives wear T-shirts inscribed “doom kills all dudus dead!”, or old stocking on the head and leg warmers to bed share your sentiments. Dressing up to in sexy outfits to bed  helps in making a woman confident, desirable and sexy. This definitely helps boost the woman’s libido, which is a big challenge for lots of women.

Should men too put on sexy outfits to bed?

Do men also attempt to dress in sexy outfits to bed? It could be you who is killing the mood! Women always complain of men who come to bed with skin looking like a grandpa crocodile. Others will simply not shower and expect oral sex from their woman.  I have also heard numerous complaints of men who fart the whole night.  To the disgust and distort of their women. The same men expect the woman to put on a sexy outfits like lingerie the following night. Surely, isn’t that a tall order?

Also what is the state of your relationship? Are you mistreating her and expect her to be all sexy for you every night? Do you spend time with her, just the two of you? Do you tell her those sweet nothings you used to tell her during courtship or do you just ignore her? Women are not visual creatures like men. Thus even if the relationship is not working.  As long as you see a little flesh then you are game. Women are emotional beings who have to feel loved and secure before they can get into the mood.

Conclusion

Like the saying goes “it takes two to tangle”. It’s paramount to talk about your bedroom issues without leaving any details out. By the time you are having this discussion. You must be prepared to hear very nasty things about your habits too. Honest about your dislikes must be articulated for healing to start. Both of you should negotiate and meet each other half way.

Comments like real men don’t shave below the chin will not get you anywhere, if your hairy armpits or bushy pubic hairs turn her off.. Be considerate, for example thongs, as much as you love them are not as comfortable as the grandmother panties; they go to lunch all the time and being just stings sometimes the sting along very sensitive places, thus can’t be worn every day. Lace is not as comfortable as it may look on your eyes.

I wish men could take up the challenge of putting on thongs and lacey underwear for a week and I am sure they will have a newfound respect. Bottom line is to persuade her and be willing to make changes too. You can take a cow to the stream but you can’t force her to drink. However, take a long bath, splash cologne on, apply lotion, sport white pure silk boxers, and come to bed with a rose between your teeth and she will not only drink and but also bath in anticipation! Thereafter you will not have to worry about the ‘doom kills’ T-shirt!