Ladies how to fix quickies
One of the most frustrating things between the sheets for women is quickies. So how can one fix quickies? This article will tell you how.
Why women hate quickies
It’s like wetting our appetite to the point where we forget we are ladies and drool openly. Just to be told sorry I just ate everything even the crumbs better luck next time.
A famous person once said, ‘fast sex is like fast food, cheap and with little nutritional value’.
Mission to fix quickies
Having said that I am not on a mission to criticize men, but rather sensitize them to be better lovers. We (women) understand that due to our fineness, you sometimes can’t help yourselves. However, a two minute wonder everyday even on the anniversary. When we expect nothing short of a running wild in the Lewa marathon is very disappointing.
One thing men ought to understand is, unlike them women are not always visual creatures. Who quickly gets turned on by seeing men in their birthday suits; naked. On the contrary, when a woman is cross with you, your hanging around butt naked, is a turn off. On the other hand if everything is all dandy then she will be climbing walls at that scenery.
We women are emotional creatures who need to be sweet-talked into submission. We understand that there might not be time for too much foreplay. So when we consent please don’t hurry. Don’t go straight to the source, take a little detour. Explore all those features that get all your attention when we are all dressed. While at it, give complements. Make sure your touch is firm and gentle that will help us get more into the mood. Because women are like water. Even under intense heat they come to a boil slowly and also take time to cool off.
How prevalent is premature ejaculation?
Premature ejaculation affects over 10% of men according to surveys elsewhere; I suspect the figure is higher here going by questions I get. Despite this knowledge. Most men who suffer premature ejaculations will never seek ways to bring it under control or deal with it. The woman is left hanging and unsatisfied due to short sex duration. Such women either seek ‘mpango wa kando’ or simply suffer in silence.
Since some men will not address this problem. I urge wife to take the bull by its horns and resolve this issue once and for all. So what can a woman do, given our socialization and culture? I say there is a lot a woman can do without hurting her partner’s ego.
How to fix quickies
To fix quickies. A woman should do her level best to delay penetration and physical contacts of the genitals as much as possible. Every man wants more than anything to wow his woman. Suggestions to the effect that if he touches she all over. Whisper sweet words for a while will not only shift his attention from the groin. It will also help slow him down removing performance anxiety.
You could also get him to put on a condom although this could be a hard sell for married men. Married women can make it part of foreplay with lots of gentle fondling on this sensitive part. As well as using exotic condoms like glowing dark, studded or flavored ones among others will get him interested. Just tell him you love it glowing in the dim light.
Another suggestion is change positions to especially woman on top; most men have a position that inhibits him thus delays the process. This giving the woman control and better chances at her achieving the big ‘O. Some men are affected by stimulants that hasten the process. Especially under the influence of alcohol so make sure such items on are not on the menu during the anniversary dinner.
Men what you can do
Men the first step towards the fix quickies is the realization that its mind set issue. Thinking of something else could do the trick. How can you get him to think of football at that moment? My recommendation is one that separates champions from average men (men pay attention this is for you); after a ‘quickie’ don’t apologize and roll over to sleep. Instead turn on the attention to your woman. Use sweet words and pleasuring her until you are firm enough again to resume lovemaking. Now that a ‘dume’ (bull) who doesn’t let a little slip ruin his reputation.
However, there are those who need a day or two, even three to get back into the mood; if that’s your case then please take your time before penetration. Prepare her well that by the time you penetrate she is moments away from the big O. With a little action she could get even more. Once a woman get an O or Os she is good for a while. If you lack the skill or times, then for your marriage sake please invest in a product that will help you last longer.