Every woman has a her own natural distinct smell that is a turn on for men. But when it turns into a fishy smell that is an sign of poor hygiene or infection. Both of which have easy remedies. In most cases the woman is able to defect the fishy smell herself. Yet, some might not have a good sense of smell. Which unfortunately leads to her man smelling the fishy smell before she does. This can be very embarrassing for the woman. And a turn off for both of them.
Fishy smell despite after showering twice a day
My man complains of unpleasant fishy smell emanating from my genitals. I can’t smell anything foul plus I wash up meticulously at least twice a day. This is starting to affect our sex life. Do you think there is anything wrong with me? Worried
Hi worried. I hope you are not married to this man. With all the challenges confronting married women, such comment eats away at one’s soul. This will affect your confidence as a woman especially with regard to your sexuality. I hope you don’t already despise yourself and more your vagina. The problem could be your partner; he may have a distaste of bodily smells regardless. In this case then he is the one who needs to work on his phobia. May be he grew up with very strict hygienic rules; like any other smell other than soapy is unclean.
When you should worry
You should be worried by the fishy smell if there is discharges, it’s not itchy, have a rush, swollen or in pain. For that you can use Aruba gel. If you don’t have any of this symptoms, then it’s most likely you don’t have an infection. All the same consult your gynecologists to remove doubts. The scent is your natural smell thus why you can’t smell it. It is a natural aphrodisiac that should be a turn-on to him. As a matter of fact most men love such whiff; I have heard of machismo stuff like “the stronger the scent the better”.
How to avoid the fishy smell
To remedy the situation otherwise, he may never speak to you in French down under given his mind-set. One of the first thing you should do is avoid tight synthetic panties. Cotton panties are best as they absorb any discharge and allow air to flow. When at home you will also do well without panties; go commando.
You could also try to shower before sex (use unscented vaginal soap). Another thing might be to try cure his phobia by doing the following. Make love in the shower every time until he can’t smell anything anymore. Thereafter have sex every time five minutes after shower until he is comfortable. Then keep increasing the time by between five to ten minutes as he gets used to the scent of your perfume box. The idea is to acclimatize him to your perfume-box. After all French, Somali and Indian perfume all have their distinctive scents. Yours happens to be a your essence, be proud!