Different types of sex; have, play and make love
Biologically, men are primed to have sex at very short notice, to take full advantage of the female’s narrow fertility window (2-3 days), when they ovulate. This period is critical in reproduction, and that’s when the woman is sexually aroused naturally. That however doesn’t mean that women can’t get turn-on outside this stage; they can, with lots of foreplay, the right environment and state of mind.
What different types of sex mean to Men
- sex is sex; it feels good almost every time,
- it’s great a reliever of stress and tension,
- it’s a good “sleeping pill”
- Best of when she enjoys it – a great ego trip!
The majority of our men equate love with sex which puzzles women. When sick, stressed, worried and exhausted as well as when happy, excited, content and relaxed, men still want to have sex. How do these varying emotions end up in the same conclusion, SEX? They prefer to have it fast, hard and furious with the occasional changes in positions to slow them down. However, different type of sex are most welcome, as a matter of fact the more types the better.
Different types of sex for Women
Need a woman to feel secure, loved, wanted, protected and desired for her to relax enough to enjoy sex; these components being present is the requisite natural ideal situation to have babies. The woman’s state of mind determines what kind of sex the couple will engage in. That’s is why women really need the different types of sex to achieve different objectives.
Let me explain; there are three different types of sex;
- Having sex,
- Playing sex and
- Making love
Of all the different types of sex this is the least exciting, but with tack could end up being one of the best. This is what I call “whoiye” sex (mercy sex); he has been begging for days, and you start imagining maybe his testicles will explode so you feel sorry for the brother.
At times you simply want your beauty sleep, but, the brother has been pleading while groping you for the last two hours. “Make it quick and snappy” you say; he can’t believe it and is hopeful he will turn you on with his skill. However, the more he tries the more agonizing it becomes. This is when women “kill mosquitoes”, count “flies on the ceiling” and basically lie there like a log to the dismay of their husbands; men hate it!
Whoiye sex could turn out to be a great experience for the woman too, if you teach him how and where to touch as well as how long and how much pressure to apply, Whoiye sex could turn out to be a great thrill. A husband who knows his woman well could turn the situation around within no time; a foot rub/back, a head massage, kisses everywhere could do the trick it varies from one woman to another. After all, you deserve intimacy and great sex too. When life throws lemons at you; make lemonade by turning a “whoiye” to a hot sex.
Playing sex is most fun of all the different types of sex, this where the woman takes control. It is premeditated, planned, executed with great care by the woman. It has nothing to do with the woman’s pleasure, it’s all about the guy, but she has a lot of fun doing it. Here the woman could be rewarding the husband for something good he did or she could have suddenly realized what a great guy he is. It could also be make-up sex or they are celebrating a milestone, an anniversary, his birthday or even a promotion.
Here the woman dresses for the occasion, brings out the best china, the scented candles and generally puts up a great show; this is sex just for the loved husband. Having said that, I don’t mean the woman does not enjoy play sex; it’s very rewarding, the look on his face says it all – I am a woman and I rock. She does not expect an orgasm, but most of the time she gets there at times in multiples. At this point a woman is very confident about her sexuality and sex appeal.
This confidence, excites her man and so it’s commonplace for him to do a quickie, and that leaves room for round two or more depending on how fit the guy is and if the woman wants more. Here a cop uniform, a nurse outfit, handcuffs, adult board games and candles that melt into massage oil are some of tricks a woman can employ to the wonderment and excitement of her man. Every woman should have some tricks up her sleeve; a signature move that will always subdue her man to submission. This trick should not be used often less he loses interest and the wow factor escapes, the tricks should also evolve and change so when you decide to play sex he doesn’t know what to expect.
The key word here is love! This basically happens when a woman is in love. At this point in her life she is very much in touch with her feelings and emotions. It’s one of the rarest forms of sex and doesn’t involve many positions, but it’s the most fulfilling regardless of whether she gets an orgasm or not. Women often shed tears, not out of pain or excessive pleasure, but due to contentment and blissful state. She gives herself totally and completely. Has he ever made you feel that way? Has he ever made you cry? Do you really feel him from head to toe? Now that is love making. Nevertheless, nothing can mess the lovemaking, the husband will do no wrong, and even a two-minute quickie is excused.