Women enjoy sex more
Despite the fact that women enjoy sex more than men they don’t show it. Going by the number of sexual complaints by women. One would think that lovemaking is only for a man’s pleasure. Even in today, where (Female Genital Mutilation) FGM is no longer practiced and women are more aware of their rights and needs.
It’s understandable that the fertility window for women is a few days in a month. Which makes women less in the mood. Unlike men who must be ready almost all the time to take full advantage of the fertile days. Given that scenario one would expect at least two days of blistering passion in a month. Where the wives turns in to a tigress to the pleasure/horror of husbands.
This is not always the case. Emotions play a bigger role that raging hormone thus many of these days may go an noticed. But, when a woman is secure, feels loved and appreciated. Women enjoy sex more than men. Plus women get better over all general satisfaction from lovemaking. That’s why women have a ‘glow’ after sex and not men.
Here are some reasons why women have it better than men;
Women are capable of multiple simultaneous orgasms as compared to one for men
Women have two options for orgasm; the clitoral orgasm and G-spot orgasm
A woman’s orgasm lasts about 23 seconds as opposed to a man’s mere 6 seconds (almost 4 times longer)
The female sexual organs have the same and more features compared to the man.
– The clitoris is equal to the penis. Both erection, but the clitoris has no other function other than sexual pleasure.
– Then the woman has the G-spot, the inner and outer lips and the vaginal canal, all pleasure points.
A woman doesn’t need a refractory period (time to recover from an orgasm to arousal); she can go on and on.
Going by these facts why then do women struggle with sexual pleasure and orgasm? I submit it’s due to the male’s simple requirements for ejaculation. Its too easy to stimulate the penis to climax. Believe me if men took as much time to warm up like women it be a whole new ball game. A very satisfying affair for both. Leading to my conclusion – women enjoy sex more.
So what can women do about it? The answer lies with the woman. But before she can make changes she must appreciate the following factors:
The responsibility for her own sexual pleasure (orgasm included) is hers. Not her husband’s. If she doesn’t do anything, then he will be more than happy to continue to do his thing.
She must know her own body and what makes her tick. Then teach the husband. Waiting for him is futile, why would he change when he is happy and satisfied.
Women must slow men down and insist on effective foreplay. Foreplay that will stimulate more erogenous zone. Men will oblige so long as they get to do their thing later. Plus all men want to pleasure their wives in bed – a greet ego trip.
Faking orgasms and headaches among other excuses doesn’t really help. Believe me a husband knows when his performance is under par and every man wants to be the ‘man’ to his wife. Your enjoyment and satisfaction reflects on him. And does wonders on his ego both in and out of the bedroom, which is also good for his career or business. So go on, let him take all the credit after you make the changes. After all we always let them but deep down we all know who the weaker gender is and where the real power lies. Again women enjoy sex more than men!