Mombasa Raha resolutions for 2015
January is typically the time most people make plans for the year with a wish list to get rid of all the bad habits, baggage, heartaches and unhealthy lifestyles among others and embrace positive change, surround oneself with positive people, embrace good healthy habits, be focused, discipline, driven and also find love/marriage. As for married couples, especially for men and some women more Mombasa Raha (Sex) would make top three in the list, while most women and some men romance it would be, love and understanding being more of a priority.
Synchronized multiple orgasms
Having said that and given my profession most would expect this article to be full of advice on how to better Mombasa Raha; advice that would make her moan harder and tips on how to make him last longer as well as how to have synchronized multiple orgasms.
While all that would be blissful, it can’t be achieved if the enabling environment is not cultivated. I have intentionally mentioned ‘cultivated’ because I believe great Mombasa Raha is a by-product of a meaningful and mutually beneficial relationship. No matter how well endowed and skillful he is, or regardless of how tightly elastic and how much she can shake it in bed, all that would not matter if there is no love involved; there are people with less than average Mombasa Raha skills but are truly happy in ignorant bliss.
So, given that the Mombasa Raha resolution will have to compete for space with all the other aspects of life I would suggest you think of the following two points:
1. Lower your expectations, appreciate more.
2. Communicate more.
Lower your expectations, appreciate more.
Forget about all that talk from peers on multiple orgasms and seven rounds of Mombasa Raha per night that make you feel inadequate; Mombasa Raha is for two people only, thus a couple should make their own standards and not go by the movies especially not the dirty ones!
Can you imagine if we all approached Mombasa Raha as a service to our beloved and not expect much in return? Often when I counsel couples the first question is usually ‘what about me?’ ‘What is in it for me?’ With that attitude everyone holds back expecting the other to serve them and then everyone gets second-rate Mombasa Raha – givers gain.
There are many single beautiful women and handsome men out there who would love to be in your shoes, but bad luck and other misfortunes have kept them lonely. So please thank God for your spouse with all his/her shortcomings; nobody is perfect. Enjoy Mombasa Raha while you can there will come a time when all you can do is cuddle each other all night.
As far as Mombasa Raha goes most couples don’t talk much about it; they have no clue of what the other likes/dislike or even if they really satisfy each other for that matter. There are lots of husbands out there who don’t think their wives enjoy it; until Mr. Victor (penis) slips out accidentally at the peak and she clicks in annoyance and even then most guys still don’t get it. Wives too have been known to fake it for years and their husbands know it too, but they don’t want to hurt their wives’ feelings, plus they think it’s a reflection of their lack of skill.
It’s amazing how many people would rather ask me how to tell if their spouses are satisfied in the sack than ask their mates.
If direct communication is a problem then find a way to ask indirectly; for example, you could purchase my DVD and watch it with your partner and ask what they think about a certain position. If they don’t like it ask why and the conversation will flow from there.
Lack of proper communication leads to suppressed feelings resulting in inhibitions; let’s take the example of a lady who is secure about her dashboard (breasts) or a man who imagines his Mr. Victor is on the short side and yet these are the least concern as far as their spouses are concerned. Thus talking about it and assurances will go a long way in improving Mombasa Raha; the repressed kitten would transform into a confident lioness while the timid man will change into the alpha male.
So let’s share more especially about our insecurities for a blissful 2015 full of first-class Mombasa Raha.