My wife has a fetish
My wife has a foot fetish
Dear Aunty, great work you are doing. I have a problem. My wife gets turned on by being sucking in the toes and I can’t stand it. Our sexual life has hit a snag because that is the only thing that seems to works for her….HELP…
Dear alarmed man, that’s a serious fetish, quite erotic and definitely one of the ultimate turn-on. Most fetishes occur in men as opposed to women. The most common fetish are foot, shoes and women’s underwear. Your wife could have had a previous lover who introduced her to this act, thus the obsession.
Most sexual acts are gross. That’s if you think of the exchanging saliva and fluids. That’s why love and the great natural instincts to reproduce overcomes us and make it palatable. Some people can’t bring themselves to perform certain tasks like in your case licking the toes. Regardless of how smitten you are. Other keep pushing the limits and the grosser the act the more the excitement. Unfortunately one can’t tell if they will marry someone with a fetish and if it’s something one can agree to act on.
Good hygiene builds confidence especially lovemaking with the mouth. It’s essential that both parties are on the same page as far as cleanness goes. When clean the toes are cleaner than other areas people lick and suck. The thing is to build confidence. Also, extra effort to show to each other how clean one is. You do not want to get foot and mouth disease.
Hygiene is paramount
Taking showers and baths together can go a long way in alleviating such concerns. Yet, if any sexual act making one partner uncomfortable. Then, the couple has to talk about it and come up with a compromise.
You could try other ways of stimulating the toes. A substitute would be to massage them with warm oil, but be sure to talk to her first less she takes offence. If you still have problems after trying everything. Then find another spot that or more sensitive such as fingers or ears could do the trick. By many accounts you are a luck man, in the sense that you know what turns her on; most men wish they had such knowledge. Imagine the advantage you would have when she is not in the mood; you reach for the toes and she turns into molten lava. Make lemonade with your lemon (situation). Enjoy yourself in the process not to mention make her very happy.