Does Mr Victor have a brain of his own?
It’s no secret that men have a very special relationship with their Mr Victors. In some cases, it’s an obsession where they talk to it, believe it has its own rights, needs and even a brain of its own. This has prompted some women to conclude that men have two brains; the usual one and one in Mr Victor and that men don’t have enough blood to sustain the two simultaneously. To compound the matter further, men get spontaneous erections that baffle, embarrass and alarm them while women might think they are sex crazy, obsessed maniacs. Can you imagine a man getting an erection at a funeral, in church or in front of the mother in law? Well it happens and it’s not their fault and neither can they help it. It’s these mysteries coupled with the special love-hate relationships men have with their Mr Victor that I get lots of questions.
Recently on my radio show (Bahari ya mapenzi – radio Jambo 97.5 FM) a listener sent a short message asking if it’s true that Mr Victor (penis) would shrink due to lack of Mombasa raha (sex) and also if his best friends (the balls) would burst from accumulation of semen. Well the answer is ‘use it or lose it’, however, it’s not the amount, variety and quality of Mombasa raha but rather how often Mr Victor stands in attention.
Use it or lose it
Mr Victor (penis) just like any other organ in the body need to be exercised to function well. Regular erections are vital as far as every man’s sexual health and keeping Mr Victor in shape is concerned. Mr Victor tissues, nerves and muscle are toned and nourished with the filling of oxygen rich blood when an erection happens. That’s why erections are so important and lack of them could be an indication of serious underlying health issues. So how does Mr Victor erect?
How erections happen
When visually stimulated or a man has erotic thoughts, his brain sends a signal to the nerves in Mr Victor with the instruction to stiffen. Even without the brain being involved, one can still get a hard-on when Mr Victor is touched, this is known as a reflex erection. In this case the nerves in Mr Victor on stimulation, sends signals to the spinal cord which instructs Mr Victor to get erect. When Mr Victor gets the green light (the chemical cyclic GMP), the blood vessels open wider and lots of blood rush in making him erect. This is possible because there are two chambers on both sides of Mr Victor that contain a vast network of blood veins and cavities that fill up with blood. After ejaculation or the stimulation stops the levels of cyclic GMP chemical drops which in turn stops the widening of the blood vessels and therefore erection ends.
No excuses to misbehave
Armed with this information I am sure a lot of guys out there will use it to justify, their demands for Mombasa raha more often, some might even use it as an excuse to cheat on their mates. Like I mentioned above ‘use it or lose it’; God has provided men with a way of exercising their Mr Victors without any sexual activities.
Mr Victors has a brain of its own
That’s why random erections happen at the oddest times and also why most men wake up with a hard on and one of the reasons why they thinks about Mombasa raha more often as the brain exercises Mr Victor. While the majority of men learn how to cope with these maintenances, others construe this happening to think I haven’t had Mombasa raha in a while; the little man needs some actions. This may lead to unhealthy sexual behaviors such as masturbation and even visiting prostitutes. Men who are well adjusted and focus learn early on how to deal with this spontaneous erections by among other things; positioning him in a more discreet position, special underwear, keeping a straight face, saying the lord’s prayer or the national anthem,thinking of football or Motorsport among others.
A Need to talk to teenage boys
All men will agree with me that spontaneous erections happen during the teenage years, which could be quite a traumatic stage of life especially if they don’t have the facts. Leading to misinformation as they attempt to find out what is wrong with them it could also make them more susceptible to peer pressure to have sex early. One more thing old sperms are reabsorbed into the body, thus the myth that balls would burst with accumulation is untrue. This calls for fathers to step up and teach their sons on how to cope and give them the facts before they get misinformed by the wrong people or worse the internet. Believe me boys will always be boys and will always find a way to get information and we all know how much misinformation is out there.